Friday, December 14, 2012

How did we escape prison?


Believe it or not, but there are some people who enjoy living in a place that has no hope.

There are a few people in South Africa that actually enjoy living in prison. It is unfortunate that there are some people who are born in prison and thus they have to endure the unpleasant life of hopelessness, until they realise, if they ever, that there is a way out.

I speak from  a point of view that has some sort of insight when it comes to escaping prison. I myself have not really been in prison but my family has. And everyday I am reminded about where we as the Zondi family come from, what we went through and where we see ourselves in the near future.

In South Africa some of us see prison as a nostalgic achievements, that we wear with pride. For example, all of our presidents (post 1994) have escaped prison, either they inherited this freedom or they themselves had to escape. Prison is something that is synonymous with the concept of an eternal emptiness. This concept was created by mankind. and because human beings are a collective creature being ostracised is hell for anybody.

Can you imagine having to wake up in the morning not knowing where your breakfast will come from, or during the winter you ask yourself this question: Will I survive this time? Everyday you have to beg people for money so that you can feed your little sister back home who is forever picked on by the bullies at school because she is too skinny and her clothes are always dirty. Can you image being abandoned by your only parent who left when you were still young because things were too hard for him or her, and you at the age of seven had to take care of everybody and you needed to be taken care of as well.
If you can't imagine this happening to you, then take a closer look at your beautiful country, then you don't have to imagine.

I'm sure a lot of people reading this blog are familiar with the American series "Prison break", where a younger brother puts himself into prison to go and break out his older brother, who was framed and thus ended up in prison. Well for me I wish life was that easy, I wish there had always been someone to rescue the innocent who are trapped in prison and it's not even their fault being there in the first place.

Nobody deserves to be imprisoned by their circumstances, especially when they did not not have a choice in the matter. 

For all of those readers who are a bit confused and may have already started making assumptions about South Africa or the person who is writing this blog, let me put your mind at ease. I  am referring to the unfortunate and man made prison called Poverty, and because it is man made it can be eradicated by man alone.

It is not that hard to help some one escape this eternal emptiness called prison, all you have to do is give someone an opportunity to better themselves and encourage him/her to do the same for the next person. At least that's one way of doing it, what are your suggestions?

Friday, December 7, 2012

LOVE?


The love of my life? This is a question we all need to answer.

I remember when I was young, drunk and infatuation with a girl whom I thought was going to be my wife. She was perfect in every way and she kind of liked me too. I should have waited until the shoe dropped because as we started growing up, she became this rebel child and didn’t want to be told what to do by anybody. As I was growing up I was a good boy my whole life, I did what my mother told me and I always wanted to make her happy. I was a true Mamma’s boy.

As I grew up my eyes were opened and I saw that the love of my life wasn’t really the girl I thought she was, more so I realized the love of my life wasn’t a girl, and no guys it was a boy. The love of my life became something I never dreamt of nor did I even imagine my life drifting towards this way of thinking. For those of you who are still reading and wondering who or what is Alpheus talking about, all I ask is for you to give me a chance to explain.

The love of my life is my pursuit of happiness. This is the one thing all of us are not guaranteed to have, which is happiness, so therefore I have made the love of my life. The pursuit of happiness (not like the movie).

Let me explain further, I’m not looking for happiness from something or someone, I look for the pursuit itself, and therefore for me the pursuit of happiness has become the love of my life.

What is your love? What is your happiness? Truly?